The boys i mean are not refined
The word refined can mean two different things:
With impurities or unwanted elements having been removed by processing.
Elegant and cultured in appearance, manner, or taste.
Option two makes the most grammatical sense, but in a slightly more abstract sense, option one would also work. The boys are anything but elegant — or pure.
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